Author: Catie Stevens

I wrote this a while ago for another blog, but I felt it’s just as relevant now, if not more so. We’re all banging on about freedom of speech, freedom of movement, how “mah freedum’s” being constrained by government, or even in the case of the outgoing president of the USA, by Big Tech... How … Continue reading Mah Freedum! →

Since becoming aware that I’m gender fluid, I’ve been asking myself what that looks like in day-to-day life. Is just knowing that you’re gender fluid enough, or must it be demonstrated as often and as loudly as possible? If gender is a sliding scale, then what happens if the scale is tipped more to one … Continue reading How far is enough? →

I’ve been feeling a bit down recently. I’m going back to work on Monday after nearly 4 weeks off in Lockdown 2.0 and I’m not looking forward to it, not just because it’s going to be three weeks of hell (I work in retail) but also because I feel like I’ve wasted all the time … Continue reading What have I done? →

Underwear is a tricky thing, isn’t it? Underwear is the foundation of any outfit, if the underwear isn’t right, the outerwear may not look as good as it should. It should accentuate the positive and eliminate the negative, smooth out lumps and bumps and make you feel comfortable. I’m not sure about underwear. I don’t … Continue reading Under where? →

I recently got myself an iPad and Apple Pencil, mostly to rediscover my artistic side and so far I’m pleased with the results! Curves I’ve also repurposed an old Twitter account that I’ve had kicking around for a while, Twitter.com/PositivelyKinky, and set up a corresponding Instagram account... Bust I seem to have stumbled upon a … Continue reading Positively Kinky →

So, as I’ve been locked down with my family, that means I’ve had no time to be Catie, but I have been thinking about what I want to do and how I want to be in the future... So here’s a list of changes I want to make... 1. Painted nails - I’ve always loved … Continue reading Next steps →

I essentially became Catie a year ago today! My black thigh-length boots arrived in the post and I posted my first photos to Instagram on May 2nd, 2019... I didn’t give myself the name Catie on that day, that happened on the 3rd, but essentially that day was the day I was reborn, and I … Continue reading Happy Re-Birthday To Me! →